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Start Learning To Overcome Low Self-Confidencefrom: Jim Holden Staff Writer
Start off by saying to yourself that anybody can do anything which they put their mind to!
Others may say differently of course, but be sure to close your ears to them. They are those kinds of people who know nothing but to try to destroy the faith which you have in yourself. They are also those who gain their own foolish confidence, by attempting to demean others who have been trying to pull themselves out of the mud which has splattered on them.
They are the type of people who gain immense satisfaction from seeing other people fail.
They may well be capable of doing these types of things to others, becuase we did start out by saying that anybody can do almost anything after all, if they really put their mind to it.
However. if you look at this fact in another light, you will actually find wisdom in it, enough to really boost your own self esteem, and wipe out low self confidence from yourself because of this very fact.
In a manner of speaking, each one of us has a beast within ourselves as it were, but equally, there is also a consummate genius that is embedded in us as well! The significance of this is that some people have tapped into this fact, and have attained their success through using the gifts that they already possess, whereas others are quite late in their lifetime in discovering their true potential.
If only we could believe in everything that is positive, then we all could have acheived a more meaningful and fruitful existence, but sadly many among us choose not to use our own limitless powers but instead are content with mediocrity!
Therefore low self-confidence is actually the lack of belief in oneself, and it all stems from the negative impulses which are actually present in everone's mind, and because of this factor, the negative perceptions that we have of ourselves can often triumph over everything else.
You must constantly try and overcome this condition, but with plenty of negative inputs coming from the surrounding environment that we live in, it is hardly surprising that people can often react negatively to particular situations and events in their lives.
It would probably sound unbelievable to say that you have unlimited powers within yourself, but the thing is, you do truly possess powers beyond your knowledge. You only have to learn to accept them, and use them to improve yourself, and to extract yourself from the curse of having low self-confidence.
Set out to break free from the lies that your world has brought upon you,and break free from the negative vibes that have been a part of your life for so long. Yes, break free, and experience life from the brighter sides.
There is no sense in living a melancholy life that offers you nothing but a doubt of your own capabilities, and equally there is no sense in living in misery, simply because you denied yourself the chance of happiness.
It is also a nonsense to continuously make yourself believe that you cannot be like those who have been successful, when actually you are just as capable as they are, the only difference being that they are confident of themselves, and you are not!
You do not have to remain forever like the eagle that made itself believe that it was a chicken, and therefore was not capable of soaring to the highest heights. That is simply foolishness, so Why not strip yourself of your low self-confidence and start spreading your wings like a true eagle!
That way you will achieve more, and you will start to excel yourself, and begin to develop fully as a true human being should develop. Set out to realize that you have had enough of the consequences of having a low self-esteem, and understand that a lack of belief in yourself will deliver you everything except happiness.
You may think that you cannot perform things as well as others would perform them, and because of this you are a bit more self conscious everything that you do, until eventually you become less confident of your own abilities to do them.
Also since there are too many profits of doom that you choose to pay attention to, you will eventually find yourself trapped in your own little world, away from those people who could have helped you, if only you had not listened intead to those people who only wanted to destroy you rather than help you.
So anybody can do anything! You just have to make the necessary demands on yourself and believe in yourself! At all costs do not pay any attention to those miserable people who only want to burden you with their own miseries.